People dont take your words so seriously when they know that you are not keeping your focus. It is part of human nature to test the limit, push the button. That is how the human is far more advance than any other creature on earth.
Whether it is a love affair, a discipline, or even a mix social interaction, you need to build that line of limitation that people can not cross. It is telling people that you are easy going but you still have that space that only you can be in it, not everyone else.
It is funny how the world sees that woman is easy going and not too worry about earning people's respect.
That is one of many reason for woman to stick to your principle, train people around you to treat you right, and respect yourself
