Love without money

After a long day of hard work, i really enjoy an intimate dinner with Jamal(my boyfriend), and Duong(my daughter). We dont have lots of money. We dont have financial support from either of our parents. We make barely above minimum wage. Sometime we struggle to make ends meet on our last dollar, and some other time, the only choice we had was to pray for god's help.
Then, dinner time that we had shared today worthed it all.
Family doesnt just start after a wedding ceremony. Love isnt just fluffy and dreamy. It has its challenge because of the sacrafices but it is very rewarding afterall. It is like putting money in your saving account to see the interest accumulates later on.

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talk the talk, walk the walk

People dont take your words so seriously when they know that you are not keeping your focus. It is part of human nature to test the limit, push the button. That is how the human is far more advance than any other creature on earth.
Whether it is a love affair, a discipline, or even a mix social interaction, you need to build that line of limitation that people can not cross. It is telling people that you are easy going but you still have that space that only you can be in it, not everyone else.
It is funny how the world sees that woman is easy going and not too worry about earning people's respect.
That is one of many reason for woman to stick to your principle, train people around you to treat you right, and respect yourself

Loving is like cooking

You know a great, tasty meal when you have it. Some like lots of seasoning but others don't. Some like their meals to be hot and steamy at all time but then others love them cold.
If all of us treat our romance business like how we do with our eatery habits, then things are no longer complicated. In the beginning, you need to take time to do 'grocery'. If you know that you are easily drawn to certain type of guy, and they are not treating you right, it's time to not letting them poison your life style and move on.
There is no if, but, maybe, shoulda, woulda. You can't force someone to love you. If you can't let them go, then it is your problem, not theirs.
I have few girlfriends that wouldn't let go of their so called 'sour candies'. Those ones that your face look all twisted when you eat them? Yep, that's them.
What do you do when you know that your dinner is not cooked right? i bet you gonna stop eating it, right? Then why can't we do the same with our relationships? If they're poisonous, it IS definitely the time to let it gooooo.