Loving is like cooking

You know a great, tasty meal when you have it. Some like lots of seasoning but others don't. Some like their meals to be hot and steamy at all time but then others love them cold.
If all of us treat our romance business like how we do with our eatery habits, then things are no longer complicated. In the beginning, you need to take time to do 'grocery'. If you know that you are easily drawn to certain type of guy, and they are not treating you right, it's time to not letting them poison your life style and move on.
There is no if, but, maybe, shoulda, woulda. You can't force someone to love you. If you can't let them go, then it is your problem, not theirs.
I have few girlfriends that wouldn't let go of their so called 'sour candies'. Those ones that your face look all twisted when you eat them? Yep, that's them.
What do you do when you know that your dinner is not cooked right? i bet you gonna stop eating it, right? Then why can't we do the same with our relationships? If they're poisonous, it IS definitely the time to let it gooooo.